As we welcome the new year, I’ve made some changes and noticed many of my friends have a common factor in their relationships. Women are not protecting themselves and are soliciting what they call love over honesty, loyalty, respect and integrity. I’m not bashing relationships, I’m not bashing men, and these opinions are simply my opinions on how many young women view love and treat themselves.
Women aren’t loving themselves like they used to, or like I thought we used to. We’re diving into relationships and staying in bad ones because we are lonely. Women are staying with controlling, cheating men because they’re afraid to venture outside of their box and find what they deserve.
Trust me ladies, you deserve the world, we all do. It pains me when I see friends staying with men who are beneath them and their values. It’s a shot in the gut when I hear my friends are involved with abusive men, emotional or physical, it’s not worth it. You think this guy will change but he can’t and you will only hurt yourself in the long run.
I’m asking for you to be cautious of who you let in your life. Only let in who you deserve. If your gut and inner voice is telling you to be careful, then trust your instinct ladies. Use the new year to flush out the negative in your life and let in the positive.
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